With any successful program communication is the key to success, not only between coach and player but with parents as well. We will strive this season to provide parents and players with all of the information that will be necessary in regards to practice schedules, game times and locations.
During the season when questions arise from a player’s perspective, we recommend having the player speak with the coach directly to answer their questions or concerns first. This will not only teach the athlete responsibility for their actions and contributions to the team, but will also provide the coach an opportunity to earn the player’s trust and respect by providing open and honest answers to his questions.
After speaking with the coach/player if all parties are not satisfied, then a scheduled meeting with the coach, player and parents before practice would be appropriate. Scheduling a time for discussion in advance would be beneficial to all parties. In the event that the issue is not resolved a meeting with the coordinator for that age group would then be necessary, with the grade coordinator communicating back to the board of directors if necessary. It is imperative that we follow this line of communication, so that all parties have an opportunity to solve the issue or concern quickly and efficiently.
Coaches, players or parents interrupting practice, criticizing or negatively discussing other players or parents in the presence of players as well as abusive or vulgar language are unacceptable ways to deal with their concerns. Any coach, player or parent whose behavior is in question will be directed to the Board for consideration. Any and all decisions made by the Board of Directors will be final.
Discussing playing time, positions, skill level etc….is natural to the youth sports experience and we encourage all involved parties to not only express their questions and concerns but communicate the positives as well. It is imperative that all parties involved understand that we as a program and as coaches want the best for each player. Football is the ultimate team sport, and with that in mind we will place each player in the position we feel is in the best interest of the team. Our history has taught us that we are not placing players in a certain position for life, as players grow and mature they will switch to many different positions before they are done playing football.
Our program is part of the Midland Empire Youth Football League, and we supply one board member to their board of directors. The Midland Empire Board of Directors has no authority over our board or program in regards to our rules, disciplinary action or decisions that regard our players, parents, coaches or facilities. These decisions will be made in the best interest of our players and our program as always.